I Lost Someone. Then I Lost Myself for a While.
The real story. Loss, falling apart, and what happens when everything you thought your life was going to be disappears.
On loss, becoming a therapist in my 40s, and what building a simulator taught me about sitting with people in pain.
By Jonathan Gregg
The real story. Loss, falling apart, and what happens when everything you thought your life was going to be disappears.
He tried to get help. The fit wasn't right. He had complex needs most approaches weren't built for. Eventually he found one that worked.
7 min readThey give you frameworks. Reflect feelings. Build rapport. The frameworks aren't wrong — they're just not enough.
6 min readThe things that matter most — timing, silence, the difference between understanding someone and them feeling understood — aren't in any textbook.
6 min readI didn't set out to build a technology company. I set out to be a therapist. But the moment I couldn't unsee changed everything.
6 min readThe #1 question he gets asked. And it's the wrong question.
6 min readWhat builds bonding is complex, multivariate, and you can't learn it except by doing it. That's the honest answer nobody gives you in school.
7 min readNew posts about the journey, what we're learning, and what's coming next.